Most people never reach their goals because they get discouraged
and stop just inches away from that goals phenomenal
completion.
In
his book, Think
and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill shares a story about R.U.
Darbys uncle who was caught up in "gold rush
fever" and went west to dig.
After
weeks of labor, he was rewarded with the discovery of shiny
ore. Needing machinery to bring the ore to the surface,
he quietly covered his find, and left to purchase the machinery.
When he returned to the site, he discovered . . . that the
vein of gold ore had disappeared!
He
drilled for weeks trying to pick up the vein, then quit
in utter discouragement, selling his machinery to a junk
man. The junk man hired an engineer to study the mine and,
together, they discovered that Darby had stopped just
three feet short of one of the richest gold veins ever discovered
in North America.
Just
like Darby, most people get discouraged and give up on their
goals just a hairs breadth away from incredible success!
You have to know when to hold em, know when
to fold em, know when to walk away, and know when
to run.
Kenny Rogers, The Gambler
Persistence
sounds good on paper, but what about the real world? How
do you know that giving up is not the right
thing to do? The most successful people on the planet
are also some of the most stubborn. They dont take
no for an answer. They arent easily swayed by failure.
They make decisions quickly and intuitively, but change
those decisions slowly if at all. If making decisions
isnt your strong suit, here are some tips for making
choices that stick to you so youll stick to them.
1.
I know where I am going. Success and progress
towards achieving your goals in life begin with having a
definite purpose. All decisions you make will be correct
when you align with that purpose.
2.
I am sucessful. Always see yourself as capable.
Never doubt your ability to accomplish your objective.
3.
My word is my bond. Always keep your word,
thereby your integrity. Dont say yes to something
unless you are prepared to follow through.
4.
I am Master of my emotions. Decisions based
on emotional discomfort are not likely to stick. Emotions
pass, but the impact of your decision may not. Emotional
attachment to an idea may very well be an indication of
the passion and commitment you will bring to its implementation,
but make sure the rest of you is in alignment before you
make the commitment.
5.
I am positive. A positive mind always finds
a way to get it done while a negative mind always looks
for ways it cant be done. Make sure you are utilizing
a positive mental attitude which will attract opportunities
to you.
6.
I am flexible Opportunities for success
dont always walk right in the front door and introduce
themselves. Opportunity often comes from the most unexpected
places. Be flexible and willing to see them when they appear.
7.
I am always in the right place, doing the right thing,
at the right time. Know that whatever situation
comes your way, you will always do the right thing towards
the right outcome.
8.
I am healthy and strong. Treasure your health
and take every step within your power to maintain your physical
well-being. Do not allow illness to be an excuse for failure.
9.
I am enthusiastic. Your enthusiasm fuels
your idea forward when all other resources are expended.
Your enthusiasm is contagious and attracts others to support
your goals.
10.
I am self-disciplined. Self-discipline is
the controlling factor for every action you take. Without
it you are like a ship adrift without a rudder, compass,
or sail. You are completely at the mercy of the forces of
nature that are free to toss you into whatever direction
they may be going.
Read
this list every day, and tattoo these affirmations upon
your subconscious mind. If you are having trouble reaching
or sticking to a decision, read them over and over until
you know what the right thing to do is.
For
over 26 years, Mark Victor Hansen
has focused solely on helping people in all walks of life
reshape their personal vision of what's possible for themselves.
You may know Mark Victor Hansen better as "that Chicken Soup
for the Soul guy®," but I first discoverd him when my mother
gave me a copy of his earlier book, Future
Diary. Mark's website
is a wealth of information on goal-setting and acheiving Rich
Results. His free web-based program is the perfect way
to jump start your prosperity program.
Dont
Worry, Make Money:
Spiritual and Practical Ways to Create Abundance and More
Fun in Your Life by
Richard Carlson
I originally bought this book for my husband, hoping to
introduce him slowly to the concepts I was learning and
implementing in my life, but very soon found myself reading
it too.
From
the bestselling coauthor of Handbook for the Soul and Dont
Sweat the Small Stuff comes a collection of 100 short essays
that feature brilliant strategies for achieving financial
success by giving up stress, worry, anger, and fear. I still
read one of these essays nearly every day for inspiration,
and motivation.
Carlson
tells us accept the fact that you can make excuses,
or you can make money, but you cant do both.
Often we get into the trap of thinking that the only way
to earn a good living is to stay late at the office, feeling
stressed out and full of anxiety. However, this can actually
get in the way of having a productive and rewarding career,
and can drastically decrease our earnings.
Creating
True Prosperity
by Shakti Gawain
Personal-growth expert Shakti Gawain redefines prosperity
in a moving testament to the power of fulfilling the soul.
Gawain, author of Creative Visualization, presents a new definition
of prosperity, one that recognizes the true importance of
fulfillment of the heart and soul rather than of monetary
gain.
Dynamic
Laws of Prosperity
by Catherine Ponder
Catherine Ponder takes you step by step to the awareness necessary
to create your own reality. She discusses prosperity, love,
and healing and gives you ways to create your own affirmations
with an awareness of intent. She explains the theory behind
creating a vaccum and relates many inspiring stories
that continue to uplift me when I feel stuck, or that I just
dont get it.
Sometimes
it's hard to have perspective when it comes to finances.
It's such a huge, heavy thing for so many of us and the
anxiety can be enormous. Staying grounded in the present
moment can be challenging. Remembering to be grateful for
what you have rather than longing for what you don't have
can seem like an impossible task...Do it anyway. It's really
the only way to fill the vaccum created by your desire.
Be satisfied and happy no matter what your account balance
and the universe will reward you with reasons to be satisfied
and happy.
Namaste!
Excerpt
from Planting the
Money Tree Who says money doesnt
grow on trees . . . its made of paper right? Money.
We are all so worried about making it and spending it, but
what does money really give us?
Sense
of Security, Freedom, Power, Happiness? Arent those
things that money cannot buy? What is money really? Money
is representative of your time, energy, intellect, and
luck, but it is really none of those things, and if you
are not clear, money can drain you of your time, talent,
and energy and leave a pretty empty hole in its
place.
But
we need money to survive. O.K., so money is not the root
of all evil. We like money. We want more of it. So what
do we do? Plant The Money Tree of course!
The
Money Tree
A Money Tree is a metaphor for the creative process involved
in growing your money consciousness. What does growing
money consciousness have to do with growing your bank
account? A lot more than most people think. Success in
any area of our lives begins with thoughts. Thoughts control
our actions. Actions soon become habits. Habits shape
lives. Emerson, Troward, and Holmes, all Early pioneers
of the new thought movement in the 20th Century articulated
this principle, although it is really nothing new. Thousands
of years earlier Solomon wrote: Be careful how you
think; your life is shaped by your thoughts, and
later Jesus said, It is done unto you as you believe.
Getting
Down to The Roots
Since I first discovered these principles at work in my
life, I realized the universal truth is, what you put
your attention on grows. I soon realized I no longer wished
to grow more of the same experiences I had been having
up to that point. One of those experiences was a chronic
lack of money. I knew I needed to translate my newly discovered
principles of life to my finances. At the time, I was
deep in debt. (read
more)
Many
Happy Returns
Titheing is the ancient practice of giving 10% of your gross (yes, gross) income
to your spiritual source. Yes this can be scary, but try it anyway. Start small
if you need to. Try 5%, or even 1%. Give away all the stuff you no longer need
in your life. Make room for the abundance.
What we are enacting here is the Law of Circulation. This is nothing new to
most people, as the law of circulation governs things outside of money, such
as what goes around, comes around. The Truth about the law of circulation
is this: Nature abhors a vacuum. What you give returns to you multiplied. If
you give kindness and love, kindness and love returns multiplied (i.e.,the Golden
Rule). Equally, if you give money, money returns to you multiplied.
Very early on, before I discovered the spiritual principles that governed such
things, I decided that I needed a computer. I was pregnant with my second child
and desperately looking for some way to be a stay-at-home mom. I had only worked
in food service and waitress positions, but I felt a certain kinship with the
computer, and I found I had a talent for design. Keep in mind that this was
well before Windows, and well before the desktop publishing revolution. Computers
were slower and stupider then, and they cost a fortune! There was no way my
small family could afford to buy me a computer.
I decided to clear off my desk...to make a space for a computer. I cut out
a picture of a computer and put it on my refrigerator. I told everyone I knew
that I wanted a computer. I essentially created a vaccum in my life. There was
a hole that needed to be filled, and about a month later, a computer showed
up on my doorstep! A relative decided to buy it for me, and it arrived one day
out of the blue. I was ready for it!
So many things have shown up in my life in the very same way. Cars, expensive
software, trips, a piano...even a hot tub! And trust me...I don't have a lot
of rich relatives tucked away...these things have come to me in the strangest
ways and I am firmly convinced that if you let the universe know you are willing,
spirit always finds a way. So dig that hole and make it deep, and you will be
filled with all your hearts desires.
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